Set Up a Filing System + Make Copies of Everything

Set Up a Filing System + Make Copies of Everything

I recommend setting up a filing system with a 1” or 1 ½" 3-ring binder to keep your documents, correspondence, and notes in an organized format.  

Now, you might scream, “I can’t even think straight let alone get organized!” 

I’m just saying, for the sake of your sanity, buy a binder.

You just need to follow some simple directions on how to keep track of the most arduous, soul-sucking, ridiculous paperwork you will encounter over the next few months.

It’s a shit-ton of paperwork. 

Which is why I implore you to just get a binder with some tabbed dividers and pocket folders. You will thank me.

Label your tabbed dividers with the information applicable to you:

  • Social Security Info

  • Mortgage

  • Income/Expenses

  • Budget

  • Other Death Benefits

  • Account Management

  • Taxes

  • Insurance

  • Social Media

  • Miscellaneous

If the thought of organizing in a binder with color-coded tabs makes you want to scratch your eyeballs out of their sockets, and/or you don’t want to kill a bunch of trees, you can keep electronic copies of your documents instead. 

Just scan the documents into your computer as PDFs and save in a similarly organized folder structure on your computer.

Go ahead. Be a binder rebel!

Whether you keep a binder full of paper copies or choose to save scanned PDF copies on your computer, you can use the same labeling/file format to stay organized.

And, of course, you can rename your file system however it suits you. 

You’re a grown-ass adult, you can do whatever you want 😜!

Office Supplies List

Here’s a handy-dandy list of office supplies you’ll need to get started.

  • Printer

  • Printer paper

  • Ink cartridges

  • 3-Ring binder

  • Tabbed dividers

  • Pocket folders

  • Sheet protectors

  • 3-hole punch

  • Stapler

  • Erasable Pens

  • Shredder

Make Copies of Everything

As an added precaution, make copies of ALL your applications and correspondence.

It’s especially important that you file duplicate copies of all your applications and communications to keep track of what you sent, when you sent it and to whom. Keeping copies of everything in your binder will go a long way toward keeping your sanity in check.

I completed tasks, forgot I completed them and redid some of the processes all over again. Save yourself the time and aggravation of forgetting what you did and when you did it because you WILL forget.

Trust me on this. I didn’t have a binder.

I should have.

End of story.

The Ultimate Survival Guide for Widows

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Welcome

  • Start Here

Section 1: Getting Started

  • Intro
  • Included in Every Section
  • Key Things to Keep in Mind
  • Accept Help + a List of What to Ask For
  • Where to Find Grief Support
  • Grief Retreats for Adults + Grief Camps for Kids
  • Section 1 Checklist + Notes

Section 2: Let's Get Organized

  • Intro
  • Cover Page for Your Binder
  • Set Up a Filing System + Make Copies of Everything
  • Gather Important Documents
  • Get Copies of the Original Death Certificate
  • Get Your Hands on a Shredder
  • Manage Your Day
  • Remove Spouse's Name from Direct Marketing Association
  • Change Home Alarm System Contact Number
  • Backup Your Data Online
  • Protect Your Identity
  • Section 2 Checklist + Notes

Section 3: Social Security Suvivor Benefits

  • Intro
  • Applying for Social Security Survivor Benefits
  • Which Survivor Benefits Apply to You and Your Family?
  • Social Security Numbers You Need to Know
  • Should I apply for a Child-in-Care Benefit?
  • Should I apply for a widow survivor benefit or a retirement benefit first?
  • Common Social Security Survivor Benefit Questions
  • Section 3 Checklist + Notes

Section 4: Assess Your Cash Flow

  • Intro
  • Do You Have Life Insurance?
  • How to Find a Policy if You're Unsure
  • Mortgage Considerations
  • Where is Your Income?
  • What Are Your Expenses?
  • Keeping Track of Expenses
  • Financial Resources for Widows
  • Section 4 Checklists + Notes

BONUS: Let's Do a Check-In

  • Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs

BONUS: The Ultimate Budget Binder for Widows

  • Budget Worksheets to Streamline Your Money Management Tasks

Section 5: Other Death Benefits

  • Military Service Benefits
  • Employee Benefits
  • Professional Organizations or Alumni Office
  • Section 5 Checklist + Notes

Section 6: Account Management

  • Intro
  • Change Beneficiary Records
  • Manage Bank Accounts
  • Get Documents Notarized for Free (or a Nominal Fee)
  • Notify Credit Bureaus
  • Notify Credit Card Companies
  • Payment Liability
  • Change Utility Accounts to Your Name
  • Section 6 Checklist + Notes

Section 7: Taxes and Insurance

  • Intro
  • Property Tax
  • Filing Taxes as a Widow
  • Health Insurance Options
  • Auto Insurace + Title Considerations
  • Homeowner's Insurance
  • Shop Around for Better Rates
  • Additional Insurance Options
  • Insurance Policy Information Worksheet
  • Section 7 Checklist + Notes

BONUS: The Ultimate Insurance Review for Widows

  • Insurance Worksheets to Help You Review Your Policies

Section 8: Social Media + Online Accounts

  • Intro
  • Google
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Amazon
  • X (formerly known as Twitter)
  • LinkedIn
  • eBay
  • PayPal
  • Pinterest
  • Social Media Accounts Worksheet
  • Section 8 Checklist + Notes

Section 9: What to Do With His Stuff

  • Driver's License
  • Cell Phone
  • Email
  • Clothes + Shoes
  • Eyeglasses
  • Section 9 Checklist + Notes

Wrap Up

  • You Can Do Hard Things
  • Please Share Your Feedback

Master List

  • Master List of Worksheets and Templates